Building emotional intelligence with Parentify through culturally aware design

Role: Product Designer

A mother tells me,

“When he throws a fit, I explain why he must stop. It only makes him cry harder. What else should I do?”

She knows the rules. She doesn’t yet have a language for feelings under the rules.

Parentify explores that gap, with practice, not judgment.

What I set out to change

In interviews (6 parents, 4 young adults), many defaulted to logic and discipline, not emotion coaching. They wanted simple ways to respond in stressful moments.
People struggled to name feelings. Labels sometimes blocked reflection.
Parents asked for practical, short help, not lectures.
Many wanted a place to share small wins and struggles without shame.

How might we...
help current and future South Asian parents become more emotionally aware, communicative, and nurturing in their parenting approach?

I broke this into behaviors:

Product in three ideas

Scenario‑based quizzes (no pass/fail)

Short, real‑life scenarios. Each option reveals a likely emotional outcome, not a verdict. The goal is to practice responses, see consequences, and reflect.

Scenario based quiz

Mixed‑emotion check‑ins

Simple emoji sliders accessible from home screen, for multiple feelings at once (e.g., a little happy, quite nervous). This avoids forcing labels and builds self‑awareness over time.

Home screen

Mood tracker

Curated reads & community

5–15 minute reads tie actions to psychology. A moderated space lets parents share small wins. Posts can be anonymous or named.

Read of the day

Curated community

Key design decisions (and why)

Replace correctness with consequences

Problem

My first quiz version graded answers as correct/incorrect. Testers shut down. Shame blocked learning.

Decisions

Swap to outcome‑based feedback. Every choice shows what might happen to the child’s feelings, connection, and regulation. No score at the question level. No shaming copy.

Version 1 with correct/incorrect answer approach

Version 2 with outcome based approach

How we summarize growth

At the end of a quiz, show a five‑bar profile instead of a pass/fail:

Empathy
Validation
Emotion regulation
Respect for autonomy
Communication clarity

Quiz results

Mixed‑emotion mood tracker

Problem

Participants struggled to label a single feeling. The words became the blocker.

Decisions

Use emoji & intensity sliders so people can record two or three feelings at once. Nudge a short reflection (“What happened just before?”). Over time, show a personal trend-line.

A safe, lightweight community

Pre‑post reminder: keep it kind and specific.
Report / mute / block built in.
Soft filters for profanity and crisis keywords with links to resources.
Pseudonyms by default; users can reveal their name if they choose.
Clear house rules: no diagnoses, no shaming kids, no medical advice.

Onboarding that personalizes without prying

A short flow sets language (English/Urdu), parent status, and child age band. This gates features (e.g., child mood tracking only if you identify as a parent) and seeds relevant scenarios and reads.

Feature walk-through

Onboarding questions

Evidence & validation

10 qualitative interviews informed scenarios, language, and safety defaults.
A collaborating psychologist sense‑checked scenarios and outcome copy.
Prototype sessions suggested higher willingness to practice when outcomes replaced grades and when mixed‑emotion sliders were available.

How I worked

Solo end‑to‑end: research, IA, UI, Urdu/English variants, prototypes, and testing.
Translated theory into practice‑first UX (short reads, concrete scenarios).
Designed for privacy by default and RTL readiness.
Kept copy non‑judgmental. Used simple, human language.

Notes on scope and intent

Parentify doesn’t “solve” parenting. It helps parents practice emotionally supportive responses and talk about what works. Starting that conversation is the goal.

What I’d do next

Clinician review loop; build a tiny editor so psychologists can refine scenario outcomes.
Scenario packs; age‑specific sets (toddlers, school‑age, teens).
Safety tooling; moderator queue, and crisis resources localization.

Testimonial

Dr. Ayesha Khalid

Associate Professor

“Momina brought empathy and structure to every step of the Parentify project. She skillfully translated raw user research into thoughtful feature ideas, balancing experimentation with clarity. Her ability to synthesize insights, test rapidly, and guide design decisions through ambiguity demonstrated maturity well beyond her years.”